Money Runs Through Our Fingers
We are surrounded by images on television and film of successful single women and men, living fabulous lives. They live in beautiful homes in which every closet is packed with mouth watering clothes, shoes, and junk of every kind. They have it and we want it.
We forget that these images are fantasies, created to show us a fantasy world. We cannot all achieve that sort of wealth, and shouldn't really need to. That doesn't stop us from wanting these things and the sponsors know it. So television commercials and print advertisements push the products even further.
There was a time when people would have to wait until the next day when the stores opened to make the purchase.
Although annoying, it was actually a good thing, because it forced us to wait to make the purchase. There was also time to decide not to make the purchase. Instant gratification and the ability to buy everything we think we want immediately has helped us to waste money too.
Putting Money Back Where it Belongs
Before you buy something, consider whether you really need it. Are you buying it to make you feel better about a problem you are having? Spending money will not solve your problems, particularly if they are related to financial issues. Material things will not make you a better person or solve all your problems. How many items do you have in your closet that you thought would make you happier? Money is a vital resource to keeping a roof over your head and food in your stomach. These are your living expenses and they include your rent or mortgage, utility bills, and taxes. Paying them keeps you secure.
When those expenses are taken care of and you feel secure, you will find that the additional material items do not hold as much attraction.Money keeps you safe, looking after your health and your ability to earn money to live. No fancy clothes or shiny jewelry will replace the security of a roof over your head.
